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Bad Bunny Tweets In Defense Of LGBTQ Community In Response To Don Omar’s Homophobic Tweet

There have long been conversations about the rampant homophobia portrayed in reggaeton and Latin trap. Artists like Bad Bunny are changing that narrative by embracing the gender spectrum and giving queer Latin trap fans a place to enjoy the music without the derogatory undertones. However, recent events show that the genre and the main players of the reggaeton world still have a long way to go. Here’s a little bit about the last few weeks in reggaeton and how the conversations about homophobia in the genre have been reenergized.

We can’t start this story without acknowledging Kevin Fret and his death.

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He billed himself as Puerto Rico’s first openly gay Latin trap singer and was publicly harassed with homophobic slurs and verses by trapero Anuel AA, which has since been removed from the internet. On Jan. 10, Fret was shot and killed while riding his motorcycle at 5:30 a.m. There is no connection that his death was due to his sexuality but his death does mark the 22nd homicide in Puerto Rico in 2019.

A couple weeks later, a story broke of Ozuna being extorted because of an explicit video.

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According to multiple reports, Ozuna was recorded when he was 16 years old participating in sexual activities with other men. Multiple media outlets in Puerto Rico allege that Kevin Fret was behind the extortion attempts but it has not been confirmed.

This breaking story prompted reggaeton sensation Don Omar to drop some homophobic slurs.

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Pato (duck) is a common gay slur used in Spanish. Many were disappointed that Don Omar would use the death of one singer and the alleged extortion of another to post a homophobic tweet. Disappointed, but not surprised. People were quick to step in and call out Don Omar for the tweet made in poor taste.

San Juan’s Mayor immediately stepped in to school Don Omar.

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It’s pretty clear that Puerto Rico’s political leaders will defend the LGBTQ community against anyone’s slurs, no matter their status. Let’s also remember that this video was illegal in the first place. Ozuna is a victim.

The tweet caused serious backlash as LGBTQ people and allies raised their voices.

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Some fans are asking if Don Omar was simply stating his opinions about carne, but most of the internet sees the timing, and tied Instagram videos, as damning evidence of homophobia.

Even Bad Bunny came through to call it all a crazy shame.

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While Bad Bunny is right to be shocked about homophobic slurs at this time in our lives, we’re not surprised. Reggaeton and Latin trap music are rife with examples of homophobic lyrics and imagery.

The LGBTQ community busted out to stan Bad Bunny.

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While most of us grew up with our mami’s and their comadres gossiping about whether or not Ricky Martin was gay, Bad Bunny is one of the first breakout artists to really stand strong supporting the gender fluid and LGBTQ community.

Bad Bunny has truly come out as the shining star of all this chisme.

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We don’t know the full story about who was targeting Ozuna for extortion, or if Don Omar cares about how he’s affected the LGBTQ community. We do know that Bad Bunny is making waves by being a male trap artist who is defending and uplifiting the LGBTQ community.

The release of his music video for “Caro” couldn’t have come at a more perfect time.

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The entire video functions as an argument for gender fluidity. The lyrics themselves are all about living that rico lifestyle and minding your own business.

He stayed true to his roots.

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Bad Bunny is known for loving his nail polish, and when we see him getting the star treatment, we zoom in to see this. Not only is he breaking down the stigma around being gender fluid or part of the LGBTQ community, he is also staying true to his roots.

We get to see his female alter-ego make decisions about her gender presentation.

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Once the video pans out, we see 19-year-old model Jazmyne Joy (who has publicly recreated Bad Bunny’s looks on Instagram). For those who are gender non-conforming, this scene in the closet is a beautiful insight to one of the most intimate times of the day.

We see her walk out of a pink house in completely androgynous attire.

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The imagery is something to be admired. What is Bad Bunny trying to say? Perhaps he is showing that despite when the world might see or what the world wants you to be, you can always walk out of the house and be who you want to be.

Throughout the video, we watch people of all shapes, sizes, genders, and abilities take the catwalk in style.

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We see trans models, pregnant models, models with Down Syndrome, all taking the catwalk and looking fabulous. I’m not crying, you’re crying. 😭 😭 😭

Then he is surrounded by people running past and showing the beauty of all human forms.

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Does it seem like the sun shines out his sacral chakra for all genders? This video is a work of art that everyone needs to see and experience.

We even see Bad Bunny getting kisses on the cheek from both a man and a woman.

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This is what true masculinity and BDE looks like, folks. He is comfortable with himself and where he is in the world.

Regardless, “Caro” just became the template for the best gender-bending music video of the year.

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As far as we all know, both these people look fly in the same outfit. It’s pretty clear that Bad Bunny’s statement here is to just love yourself, exactly as you are.

Most importantly, young queer kids who look up to him will open their hearts to more gente that look like him.

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Even more importantly, young queer Latinx kids will have someone in the spotlight that they can relate with; that they can dream to aspire to. We all have a place in this world and Bad Bunny is making sure of that.

He’s breaking gender barriers in bigger and louder ways, every day.

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It’s true that it really doesn’t matter what anyone’s sexuality or gender identity is. He just challenged gender norms in Latino society and his fans are here for it. He might have even picked up some new fans with his strong stance.

Basically, he just did that. ⬇️

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The older generation may not be here for Bad Bunny’s music and may never be exposed to the pioneering work that he’s accomplishing for the rest of us. We all, hopefully, have those machismo cousins that might sway un poquito towards a more open “mind and spirit” to appreciate all diversity.


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Puerto Vallarta Has Long Been An LGBTQ-Friendly Travel Destination And Here’s Why

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Puerto Vallarta Has Long Been An LGBTQ-Friendly Travel Destination And Here’s Why

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Puerto Vallarta is one of the favorite Mexican tourist destinations of the LGBT community. There are hotels, bars, nightclubs, beaches, and even drinks specifically for LGBT travelers, and due to the safety and welcoming environment for these guests, it is the first city in Mexico to receive the Gay Travel Approved distinction by GayTravel.com.

But why PV? What made Vallarta Mexico’s top gay destination?

Let’s start back at the beginning.

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In the south of Puerto Vallarta you will find the “Old Town,” also called “The Romantic Zone,” the tourist area favored by expats and foreigners who want to soak up local traditions. The Old Puerto Vallarta is also considered the gay neighborhood since 1980, when the gay community and retired Canadians and Americans bought land and properties in order to create gay-friendly businesses. Today there’s a wide variety of attractions with this focus, including bars, restaurants, stores, nightclubs, and both budget and boutique hotels.

In this zone is nestled the popular beach Playa de los Muertos, which, although not exclusively gay, for the last 20 years has been known as a gay-friendly beach (also called Blue Chairs, because of the many blue chairs placed by a gay resort which bears the same name), mainly in the high season, from November to March.

Why is this pristine beach the LBGT meeting point? Because the gay-friendly beachfront hotels in the area causes—and guarantees—a concentration of LGBT tourists, bringing a multicultural ambience where members of this community will be respected without discrimination. In the morning they can socialize and enjoy the party atmosphere, and in the afternoon walk holding hands under the dazzling sunset, in a romantic atmosphere free of hostility. Such is the high demand for LGBT-friendly vacation spots that the area has been extended to include the green chairs and as far as the north coast, in the elegant Oceano Sapphire Beach Club, owned by gays.

But it’s about more than just the beach.

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Unlike certain countries, laws against homosexuality never existed in Mexico. There is, however, a strong macho culture and religious influence which disapproves it—nonetheless the locals show respect. Under these circumstances, the growing community has led LGBT organizations to work to promote a change of culture in the pursuit of equality. Their work has gotten results: they have achieved recognition of gay rights, and implemented laws against the provocation and incitement of hate or violence against LGBTs, and also to guarantee equality in employment and public accomodation and services. Even more, in 2013 Puerto Vallarta legalized civil union between LGBT couples, followed by same-sex marriage in 2016.

This city organized its first Gay Pride March, and has hosted the Pink & Proud Women’s Party—the equivalent lesbian celebration—for the last four years, with assistance from the local Canadian and American communities. The multiple events in support of the LGBT community have marked out Puerto Vallarta as the “Mexican San Francisco.”

Now, there’s a giant and flourishing LGBTQ tourism industry that welcomes people from around the world.

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For the last 10 years, the number of LGBT visitors has increased in Puerto Vallarta and Jalisco, and in order to meet demand, the number of LGBT-friendly resorts and touristic attractions has also increased. Now three of every 10 hotels in Puerto Vallarta are LGBT-friendly, and most also offer weddings and other symbolic ceremonies.

Bars, nightclubs and other amenities are already focused on this market, and there are also tours—like the Gay VIP Bars Tour—and even drinks—like the Gay Tequila and the Gay Energy Drink—to make these guests feel extra welcome. As a result, Puerto Vallarta now hosts International LGBT Business Expos, with important conferences and events, including fashions shows, beach parties and music festivals to celebrate this booming market.

Puerto Vallarta remains the gateway to Mexico for many LGBTQ travelers.

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Some other cities have recognized the demand, and are now attempting to attract LGBT tourism to their destinations. Puerto Vallarta is not letting it happen: diverse businesses—no matter the sexual preference—are joining forces to create organizations to promote this targeted brand of tourism. The market gives consumers what they want, and they have identified this growing target and will not let it go.

Beyond the marketing, Puerto Vallarta became a platform to support gay rights, and the LGBT community knows it and feels welcome here. What really keeps the LGBT community hitting Puerto Vallarta is the activism, respect, and freedom they find in this beautiful paradise.

Salice Rose’s Ex Is On YouTube Right Now Attacking The Social Media Star Just Days After Announcing Her New Girlfriend

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Salice Rose’s Ex Is On YouTube Right Now Attacking The Social Media Star Just Days After Announcing Her New Girlfriend

YouTuber Salice Rose has been notoriously private about her love life… up until last week when she introduced us all to her new bae. The Rose Family has erupted with joy for Salice in finding, if not love, then at least baeship with Brilynn. We’ve never seen another face that Salice has dated.

Then, one of Salice’s exes launched a YouTube channel of her own to explicitly talk about her relationship with Salice. In the video, Chas vents all her frustrations with the relationship and publicly airs out her side of the story. According to Chas, Salice was verbally and emotionally abusive, didn’t want her to have friends, and even donated her father’s ashes to Goodwill after one day’s notice to remove her stuff from Salice’s apartment.

Chas F’s channel already has 47k subscribers, and all her videos are about Salice Rose.

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She created the channel about a week ago, just after Salice introduced her followers to her new girlfriend, Brilynn. According to Chas, it was hard to watch the video because just two weeks prior, they were “in each other’s phones” and talking about marriage, but Salice wanted to focus on her music.

Salice Rose has responded with a nearly hour and a half long retaliation video.

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“A message to my ex: I hope lying on my name all over social media made you happy,” Salice tweeted. “I hope you got all the fame you wanted. Because of YOU I’m in waves of depression. You spoke, my turn.”

In the video, she goes point by point to respond to each of Chas’s allegations.

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Salice actually made the point of writing down each point that Chas made and tells her fans that the video would be the first and the last time she talks about that relationship again. 

Chas’ story is that Salice didn’t let her have any other jobs because she didn’t want her to be too far from her. Salice’s side, corroborated by her friends commenting in the background, is that Chas quit all her jobs of her own volition. According to Salice, she would absolutely tell her to “come home,” but didn’t expect her to actually quit her jobs.

According to Chas, Salice had the idea to hire her and their relationship started to fall apart from there.

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Chas shared that she had a feeling that taking the job would take away time from their relationship. They were spending all day together, and Salice takes her job very seriously. According to Chas, that made it difficult to spend time together without tension. Chas also said that she wasn’t getting paid enough to support anything other than her car bills. They started fighting, and Chas says that she didn’t have the opportunity to make any new friends.

The Rose Family is largely very sus of Chas’ accusations.

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Chas said that she asked Salice to take on more responsibilities because she felt degraded by being paid to pick up dog poop. Salice had two dogs and Chas also had two dogs. According to Chas, the moment that she talked about getting other jobs, Salice started to treat her with disrespect and gaslit her.

Salice Rose opened her retaliation video by calling several Goodwills to ask if they accept human remains. They all said ‘no.’

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Chas says that Salice was going to mail her stuff out to Florida after they separated. Chas said she was calling and leaving voicemails to a mutual friend to arrange for Chas’s dad’s stuff to be mailed back to Florida. Through tears, Chas shares that two months after she moved out, she received an email with the subject line, “Notice of Right to Reclaim Abandoned Property” on June 7th.

One fan did some deep diving on Chas’ Instagram back to the day after that email, June 8th.

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“I saw your ex’s vids and for a sec she made me think that you were the bad guy here,” tweeted @nvmexme. “But i mean everyone make mistakes yk? Anyways i kinda stalked her ig account and noticed that the same day say said that her things were going to be ‘donated’ Which was on june 8.”

Salice shared the email with her fans which clearly states that she gave Chas a month and a day from the receipt of the email to reclaim her property, which had already been in her apartment for two months.

There has been an outpour of support for Salice Rose after she responded to her ex-girlfriend’s video.

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Salice laid out her counterargument in an hour and twenty-minute video and went point by point off of Chas F’s video. She made a real point of taking on Chas F’s statement that Salice didn’t want her to have friends. As Salice lays out, she values friendships and argues that it is better for the relationship if both people have friends to hang out with outside of the relationship.

In other news, Salice’s debut R&B track became an overnight bop.

Salice has been teasing an entrance into a music career, and fans are shooketh that it’s actually here. Salice’s new bae, Brilynn commented, “Congratulations babe.”

Relationships are messy, but “Lullaby” is as smooth as can be.

Fans already can’t get enough of her new song.

Some are calling it the new summer bop. It does seem like fans have long been waiting for something like this from Salice Rose and they are letting everyone know that they need to check out this new song.

Watch Salice Rose’s response to her ex-girlfriend’s videos below!

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