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Two Sisters And Their Friends Were Asked For Proof Of Residency Before They Could Order Lunch

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“Can I see your proof of residency?”

That’s what Diana Carrillo, her sister Brenda, and two friends were asked during lunch last week at Saint Marc Pub-Café in Huntington Beach, Calif. At first, the four women thought it was a joke. According to Carillo, the waiter responded by saying, “I need to make sure you’re from here before I serve you.” Carillo told Los Angeles Times that the waiter made no verbal or facial signs that he was joking and in that moment, she felt judged and shocked that he would ask them that question. Rather than make a fuss in the restaurant, Carrillo and her friends spoke to the manager and declined an offer to be seated in a new section and chose to leave.

Carrillo shared her experience on Facebook and more than 1,500 people have shared it.

A few friends and I went to Saint Marc’s in Huntington Beach today. My sister and my friend were seated first and the…

Posted by Diana Carrillo on Saturday, March 11, 2017

“A few friends and I went to Saint Marc’s in Huntington Beach today. My sister and my friend were seated first and the waiter asked them for their ‘proof of residency’ when they ordered a drink,” Diana wrote on Facebook. “My friend in disbelief repeated what he said and his response was ‘yeah, I need to make sure you’re from here before I serve you.’ Not knowing that this happened to them, my friend and I were then seated and he returned to the table and asked us for our ‘proof of residency.’ After fully digesting what he said, we all got up and left to speak to the manager. For a few seconds I thought maybe he was being a smart ass or joking but the fact that he said ‘I need to make sure you’re from here before I serve you’ was completely unacceptable. How many others has he said this too? I hope this employee is reprimanded for his actions. No establishment should tolerate discriminatory actions from their employees. PLEASE SHARE WITH YOUR FAMILY AND FRIENDS!”

The group was offered a VIP experience and the restaurant offered to donate 10 percent of the weekend’s proceeds to a charity of their choice.

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CREDIT: Saint Marc Pub-Cafe, Bakery & Cheese Affinage / Facebook

Carrillo and the rest of her party declined Saint Marc’s offer to return to the restaurant. Diana asked for Saint Marc to donate proceeds to the Orange County Immigrant Youth organization. According to The Washington Post, the waiter implicated in the situation has been fired from the restaurant.

“I don’t know if he had an agenda or not,” Kent Bearden, the senior director of operations at Saint Marc, told The Washington Post. “My concern is he violated a company policy. We’re very specific about how we treat our guests. That individual did not treat a table of guests to the expectations that we set forth in that company policy, and that caused him to be terminated.”


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Fourth Grade Robotics Team Wins Robotics Contest And Is Told To 'Go Back To Mexico'

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Fourth Grade Robotics Team Wins Robotics Contest And Is Told To ‘Go Back To Mexico’

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Sore losers are just part of life. But the Pleasant Run PantherBots, a team of mechanically-inclined fourth graders, found out just how bad sore losers can actually be.

The Pleasant Run PantherBots had just scored the big victory in the robotics challenge at Plainfield High School in Plainfield, Ind., an event consisting of around 35 competing schools, and were making their way through the parking lot when several children from different school districts began chanting discriminatory slogans, including “go back to Mexico.”

Three of the five members of the PantherBots are Latino.

The taunting children apparently learned their discriminatory behavior from their parents, who also joined in.

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According to USA Today, Diocelina Herrera, the mother of PantherBot participant Angel Herrera-Sanchez, described the ordeal, saying, “They were pointing at us and saying that ‘Oh my God, they are champions of the city all because they are Mexican. They are Mexican, and they are ruining our country.”

Side note: It’s hard to make the argument that Mexicans are ruining the country when they take first place in a highly competitive robotics contest.

The PantherBots showed they were the real winners by how their reaction to all the negativity.

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According to the Independent, team leader Elijah Goodwin said that the negativity can’t compete with the reality of the situation, saying, “I think that they can talk all they want because at the end we’re still going to [the Vex IQ World Championship]. It’s not going to affect us at all. I’m not surprised because I’m used to this kind of behavior. When you have a really good team, people will treat you this way. And we do have a pretty good team.”

After the event, the PantherBots’ coach attempted to calm members of the winning team, but it was already too late.

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According to USA Today, Lisa Hopper, coach of the PantherBots, talked about her concerns as she sat down with the team to talk about the unpleasant event: “I was afraid they would let it get in their heads and wig them out.” However, what she found was a level of resilience you’d expect from a winning team. “They said: ‘We know they are mean. We know they were jealous. We’re not going to let it bother us.’ One of our guys said ‘to take stuff like that and let it make you stronger.'”

Let’s hope the PantherBots can continue their success. The world championship takes place between April 23 to 25. The group recently raised more than $12,000 on this Go Fund Me Page, which is currently no longer accepting donations.

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