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LGBTQ+ Latinos Showed Up And Represented At One Of The Largest Equality Marches Of Our Lifetime

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It’s been one year since Omar Mateen opened fire and killed 49 people at Pulse Nightclub in Orlando, Fla. Many of the victims were young, LGBTQ+ Latinos enjoying a night of dancing with family and friends. One year later, at The Equality March for Unity and Pride, LGBTQ+ Latinxs were out, loud, and proud for all those who couldn’t be there. Some of them spoke to mitú about why they took part in one of the largest LGBTQ+ demonstrations in recent memory and why they wanted to be visible. Here’s what they told us…

Sara Ramirez

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“I think it’s important [to be visible] but I also think that it’s a really individual and personal decision for people to come out either publicly or to their family or to themselves. That’s a very personal process so I’m not one to dictate what people should do,” Ramirez told mitú. “What I do understand from coming out publicly, certainly, why it’s important is that I’m normalizing something for people so they’re not so afraid of it themselves, maybe. The modeling of that could help somebody else have the courage to do that in the mirror for themselves and to represent black and brown bodies doing that are owning all of the intersectionalities that their lives touch on that can be equally oppressing.”

Ashley Summers

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“I am a Pulse survivor and it’s very important to me to make sure that we keep things visible and we keep people in the loop of what’s going on because right now there can be some trickiness into getting things to be properly viewed,” Summers told mitú. “I definitely want to be here for the people who can’t be here. There are a lot of people who don’t have the availability in the world.”

Paulina Montañez-Montes

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“I think that the Latinx community is sort of not as visible as a lot of other communities and identities. I try to be as open about being a Latina in all aspects of my life. I want to make sure that people recognize and see that we have a lot of narratives in our lives and we’re not all just one note kind of folks,” Montañez Montes told mitú. “Being everywhere where we’re not seen is important. So, just showing up and building communities with other folks like the Black Lives Matter community and make sure that we are with the Asian-Pacific Islander folks and those who are resisting together. Just showing up and seeing each other’s faces is really important.”

Jose Fevallos

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“I’m here to march for all of our rights as a gay man, as a Latino and as an immigrant. [I’m here] just to show to everybody that we are all the same under the same God,” Fevallos, an immigrant from Peru, told mitú. “We have different colors; we have different thoughts, but we all have the same rights: the right to fight for our love and the person that we decide to love and be with. It doesn’t matter if it’s a woman or a man. We just love and love is love.”

Victor Capellan

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“I’m visible here today as a queer Latino man because I think it’s important to be out and be visible and be something or someone that someone can look up to and be like, ‘That person is being authentically themselves,'” Capellan told mitú. “I know when I was going through my own personal journey, seeing people who were out made a difference to me, even though I wasn’t. It made me feel more comfortable so if I can be that beacon of hope for anyone else then that’s more than I can ask for.”

Sister PureHeart DarkSoul

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“Be who you are no matter what they say. No matter if anybody says that you are too big or too small, too this color or that color. It doesn’t matter. We’re all the same,” PureHeart DarkSoul told mitú.  We all bleed the same color red and it’s just stupid hate and we have to express ourselves and put it out there and ourselves out there as well as the world and the speech. Community. It’s not LGBTQ, it’s all of us. We’re humans. We come out the same way and we go out the same way. In between doesn’t matter. It’s what’s inside that counts.”

Estrella Sanchez

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“It’s important to clarify that pride has lost its values and the true meaning of pride. I am a very proud indigenous, trans Latina. I’m Mexican. Right now, pride is more about the money and not about doing the job that began at Stonewall. We have forgotten that we want and need justice,” Sanchez told mitú. “My sisters in the center of the fight are being criminalized simply for being undocumented immigrants and for being Latina and for being transgender and many of them, many of us, came to this country searching for safety and protection that our corrupt governments did not offer. But here, we have people talking openly about the diversity and inclusion needed for LGBTQ people.”

Cristela Solorio Ruiz

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“It’s kind of cliché but my existence is resistance There’s a sign out there that says, ‘I march for all those who can’t.’ Forty-nine people were killed last year, murdered in a club for celebrating who they are, who they love,” Solorio Ruiz told mitú. “I stand here with the ability to come and talk and to have the platform. For me, it’s really personal and it’s a lot of burden that I carry because of people in the past and who have paved the way for me to be vocal about certain things.”

Daniel Garzon

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“It’s important to recognize that not only do we speak different languages, that we need to be visible as Latinos. Sometimes we get discriminated against just because of the language that we speak or the color of our skin and that shows in every aspect of society,” Garzon told mitú. “So, it’s important that there be a presence of us here and no matter who we are, what skin color, I think it is important to be out and proud as an LGBTQ Latino.”


READ: Here’s Why An Undocumented Trans Latina Helped Create The LGBTQ Pride March Of Our Lifetime

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Here’s Why Puerto Vallarta Is the Gay Beach Capital of Mexico

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Here’s Why Puerto Vallarta Is the Gay Beach Capital of Mexico

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Puerto Vallarta is one of the favorite Mexican tourist destinations of the LGBT community. There are hotels, bars, nightclubs, beaches, and even drinks specifically for LGBT travelers, and due to the safety and welcoming environment for these guests, it is the first city in Mexico to receive the Gay Travel Approved distinction by GayTravel.com.

But why PV? What made Vallarta Mexico’s top gay destination?

Let’s start back at the beginning.

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In the south of Puerto Vallarta you will find the “Old Town,” also called “The Romantic Zone,” the tourist area favored by expats and foreigners who want to soak up local traditions. The Old Puerto Vallarta is also considered the gay neighborhood since 1980, when the gay community and retired Canadians and Americans bought land and properties in order to create gay-friendly businesses. Today there’s a wide variety of attractions with this focus, including bars, restaurants, stores, nightclubs, and both budget and boutique hotels.

In this zone is nestled the popular beach Playa de los Muertos, which, although not exclusively gay, for the last 20 years has been known as a gay-friendly beach (also called Blue Chairs, because of the many blue chairs placed by a gay resort which bears the same name), mainly in the high season, from November to March.

Why is this pristine beach the LBGT meeting point? Because the gay-friendly beachfront hotels in the area causes—and guarantees—a concentration of LGBT tourists, bringing a multicultural ambience where members of this community will be respected without discrimination. In the morning they can socialize and enjoy the party atmosphere, and in the afternoon walk holding hands under the dazzling sunset, in a romantic atmosphere free of hostility. Such is the high demand for LGBT-friendly vacation spots that the area has been extended to include the green chairs and as far as the north coast, in the elegant Oceano Sapphire Beach Club, owned by gays.

But it’s about more than just the beach.

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Unlike certain countries, laws against homosexuality never existed in Mexico. There is, however, a strong macho culture and religious influence which disapproves it—nonetheless the locals show respect. Under these circumstances, the growing community has led LGBT organizations to work to promote a change of culture in the pursuit of equality. Their work has gotten results: they have achieved recognition of gay rights, and implemented laws against the provocation and incitement of hate or violence against LGBTs, and also to guarantee equality in employment and public accomodation and services. Even more, in 2013 Puerto Vallarta legalized civil union between LGBT couples, followed by same-sex marriage in 2016.

This city organized its first Gay Pride March, and has hosted the Pink & Proud Women’s Party—the equivalent lesbian celebration—for the last four years, with assistance from the local Canadian and American communities. The multiple events in support of the LGBT community have marked out Puerto Vallarta as the “Mexican San Francisco.”

Now, there’s a giant and flourishing LGBTQ tourism industry that welcomes people from around the world.

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For the last 10 years, the number of LGBT visitors has increased in Puerto Vallarta and Jalisco, and in order to meet demand, the number of LGBT-friendly resorts and touristic attractions has also increased. Now three of every 10 hotels in Puerto Vallarta are LGBT-friendly, and most also offer weddings and other symbolic ceremonies.

Bars, nightclubs and other amenities are already focused on this market, and there are also tours—like the Gay VIP Bars Tour—and even drinks—like the Gay Tequila and the Gay Energy Drink—to make these guests feel extra welcome. As a result, Puerto Vallarta now hosts International LGBT Business Expos, with important conferences and events, including fashions shows, beach parties and music festivals to celebrate this booming market.

Puerto Vallarta remains the gateway to Mexico for many LGBTQ travelers.

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Some other cities have recognized the demand, and are now attempting to attract LGBT tourism to their destinations. Puerto Vallarta is not letting it happen: diverse businesses—no matter the sexual preference—are joining forces to create organizations to promote this targeted brand of tourism. The market gives consumers what they want, and they have identified this growing target and will not let it go.

Beyond the marketing, Puerto Vallarta became a platform to support gay rights, and the LGBT community knows it and feels welcome here. What really keeps the LGBT community hitting Puerto Vallarta is the activism, respect, and freedom they find in this beautiful paradise.

Salice Rose’s Ex Is On YouTube Right Now Attacking The Social Media Star Just Days After Announcing Her New Girlfriend

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Salice Rose’s Ex Is On YouTube Right Now Attacking The Social Media Star Just Days After Announcing Her New Girlfriend

YouTuber Salice Rose has been notoriously private about her love life… up until last week when she introduced us all to her new bae. The Rose Family has erupted with joy for Salice in finding, if not love, then at least baeship with Brilynn. We’ve never seen another face that Salice has dated.

Then, one of Salice’s exes launched a YouTube channel of her own to explicitly talk about her relationship with Salice. In the video, Chas vents all her frustrations with the relationship and publicly airs out her side of the story. According to Chas, Salice was verbally and emotionally abusive, didn’t want her to have friends, and even donated her father’s ashes to Goodwill after one day’s notice to remove her stuff from Salice’s apartment.

Chas F’s channel already has 47k subscribers, and all her videos are about Salice Rose.

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She created the channel about a week ago, just after Salice introduced her followers to her new girlfriend, Brilynn. According to Chas, it was hard to watch the video because just two weeks prior, they were “in each other’s phones” and talking about marriage, but Salice wanted to focus on her music.

Salice Rose has responded with a nearly hour and a half long retaliation video.

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“A message to my ex: I hope lying on my name all over social media made you happy,” Salice tweeted. “I hope you got all the fame you wanted. Because of YOU I’m in waves of depression. You spoke, my turn.”

In the video, she goes point by point to respond to each of Chas’s allegations.

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Salice actually made the point of writing down each point that Chas made and tells her fans that the video would be the first and the last time she talks about that relationship again. 

Chas’ story is that Salice didn’t let her have any other jobs because she didn’t want her to be too far from her. Salice’s side, corroborated by her friends commenting in the background, is that Chas quit all her jobs of her own volition. According to Salice, she would absolutely tell her to “come home,” but didn’t expect her to actually quit her jobs.

According to Chas, Salice had the idea to hire her and their relationship started to fall apart from there.

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Chas shared that she had a feeling that taking the job would take away time from their relationship. They were spending all day together, and Salice takes her job very seriously. According to Chas, that made it difficult to spend time together without tension. Chas also said that she wasn’t getting paid enough to support anything other than her car bills. They started fighting, and Chas says that she didn’t have the opportunity to make any new friends.

The Rose Family is largely very sus of Chas’ accusations.

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Chas said that she asked Salice to take on more responsibilities because she felt degraded by being paid to pick up dog poop. Salice had two dogs and Chas also had two dogs. According to Chas, the moment that she talked about getting other jobs, Salice started to treat her with disrespect and gaslit her.

Salice Rose opened her retaliation video by calling several Goodwills to ask if they accept human remains. They all said ‘no.’

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Chas says that Salice was going to mail her stuff out to Florida after they separated. Chas said she was calling and leaving voicemails to a mutual friend to arrange for Chas’s dad’s stuff to be mailed back to Florida. Through tears, Chas shares that two months after she moved out, she received an email with the subject line, “Notice of Right to Reclaim Abandoned Property” on June 7th.

One fan did some deep diving on Chas’ Instagram back to the day after that email, June 8th.

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“I saw your ex’s vids and for a sec she made me think that you were the bad guy here,” tweeted @nvmexme. “But i mean everyone make mistakes yk? Anyways i kinda stalked her ig account and noticed that the same day say said that her things were going to be ‘donated’ Which was on june 8.”

Salice shared the email with her fans which clearly states that she gave Chas a month and a day from the receipt of the email to reclaim her property, which had already been in her apartment for two months.

There has been an outpour of support for Salice Rose after she responded to her ex-girlfriend’s video.

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Salice laid out her counterargument in an hour and twenty-minute video and went point by point off of Chas F’s video. She made a real point of taking on Chas F’s statement that Salice didn’t want her to have friends. As Salice lays out, she values friendships and argues that it is better for the relationship if both people have friends to hang out with outside of the relationship.

In other news, Salice’s debut R&B track became an overnight bop.

Salice has been teasing an entrance into a music career, and fans are shooketh that it’s actually here. Salice’s new bae, Brilynn commented, “Congratulations babe.”

Relationships are messy, but “Lullaby” is as smooth as can be.

Fans already can’t get enough of her new song.

Some are calling it the new summer bop. It does seem like fans have long been waiting for something like this from Salice Rose and they are letting everyone know that they need to check out this new song.

Watch Salice Rose’s response to her ex-girlfriend’s videos below!

READ: Salice Rose Just Awkwardly Introduced Us To Her Girlfriend And It’s Obviously Love

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