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Woman Who Falsely Identified Herself As A Police Officer Tried To Intimidate Latinas Playing At Park

With one viral video, Public Park Penelope has been born, mi gente. 

A viral video posted to Twitter earlier this week shows a white woman berating and harassing a group of young Latinas who were playing in a public park in Texas. In the video the woman can be seen verbally harassing and cursing at a group of young girls who had simply been enjoying themselves at a public park earlier this week.

During her tirade, the woman falsely identified herself as a Fort Worth police officer, which has since launched a police investigation and conversations about the use of police as a threat against people of color.

The woman was filmed forcing the group of girls out of the park during a one-minute recorded video.

In the video, the woman can be seen confronting a group of girls who were playing on a large swing in the park and yelling at them to leave.

 “Stop. Stop. Stop. Stop It’s a children’s park. Stop now,” the unidentified woman yells before grabbing hold of the swing set the girls were on. The girl who had been on the swing calmly replied that they “are children,” and another off-screen replied “hell no,” to the woman’s aggressive behavior. 

Soon enough, the woman launched into a stream of expletives. “No you’re not,” the woman yelled. “Okay well I’m a f******* PD, so get the F**** out of here now if you’re not here to play as a child.”

After the girl who had been on the swing replied that she was fifteen-years-old, the unidentified woman launched into another rant. “You’re not a f–king child. Thirteen or younger,” the woman yells in the video. “You provoked yourself as a child, and you’re not. I can literally arrest you as a f–king adult. Which is your choice? Are you a child or a goddamn adult? Go. Get out of here.”

According to Remezcla, an article published by the local newspaper Fort Worth Star-Telegram reported that Dream Park is “an inclusive park that accommodates children of all ages.”

On Wednesday, the Forth Worth Police tweeted that the woman in the video is not a police officer in their department which contradicted her claims.

“We have received numerous mentions & messages regarding a woman in a park claiming to be “PD” & using vulgar & inappropriate language toward youth & children. She does NOT appear to be a #FortWorth police officer,” the department said.

On Thursday, the Forth Worth Police released another statement that they had confirmed that the woman is not an officer in their department and that she is instead a local resident.

According to the Forth Worth Police, the incident has sparked an investigation in their department for “several potential criminal charges, including impersonating a public servant and disorderly conduct.”

In either case, what is truly disturbing about this video is the way in which a grown adult manically and verbally attacked a group of young girls for simply having fun in public space where such type of play is encouraged. 

Public Park Penelope might not have called the police but her actions are extremely similar to the trend of videos that went viral last year of white people using the police to scare off people of color. 

While the unidentified woman at the park did not call the police, she did use the enforcement and threat of the police to achieve a goal of getting the girls away from the park. Her actions are not unlike the many episodes and events similar to these that people encounter while being Black or Brown in the United States. 

Throughout the spring and summer of 2018, POC captured national attention when they began holding white people accountable for using the very real threat of police against them in situations that were blown out of proportion. The videos put a blast on the racial targeting of POC by white people who had called the police in moments they claimed to have felt “scared” “uncomfortable” or “threatened” by the presence of Black or brown people. From the trend, Permit Patty, ID Adam, BBQ Betty And Pool Patrol Paula were born. The incidents highlighted the various mundane things that can spark a police confrontation when Black people are out and about in their community.  While the occurrence of such videos have slowed down, it appears the use of police as a threat against POC remains alive and well.

A Man Was Caught On A Kiss Cam During A Soccer Game And His Life Fell Apart After

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A Man Was Caught On A Kiss Cam During A Soccer Game And His Life Fell Apart After

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A man identified as Deyvi Andrade Urgiles was caught on a kiss cam during a soccer match. The video shows the man and woman lovingly kissing while on the kiss cam before he realized that he was on the camera. His guilt and regret were immediate as he took his arm off the woman and tried to act like nothing was happening between them.

An unsuspecting man was caught cheating on his wife during a soccer game and the video is everything you would expect.

En mi defensa, aclaro que no hubo beso… soy víctima

EN MI DEFENSA QUIERO ACLARARLE AL SEÑOR REPORTERO QUE EN NINGÚN MOMENTO ME MORÍA POR BESAR A MI AMIGA Y ADEMÁS EN EL VIDEO NO SE VE NINGÚN BESO, NO SE POR QUE DICE QUE NOS BESAMOS APASIONADAMENTE CUANDO NO HUBO SIQUIERA UN ROSE EN NUESTROS LABIOS, SOLO ME JUZGAN Y ME CRITICAN PERO NADIE SE PONE EN MIS ZAPATOS, DIOS NO QUIERA Y NO LES PASE LO MISMO, SOY INOCENTE DE LA BURLA MEDIÁTICA Y QUE QUEDE CLARO QUE VOY A DEFENDER MI HONOR Y ORGULLO DE HOMBRE HASTA EL FINAL DIGAN LO QUE DIGAN 🤚☝️💪

Posted by Deyvi Andrade Urgiles on Tuesday, January 21, 2020

The look on the man’s face shows that he was definitely not wanting the kind of attention that comes from a kiss cam. As soon as he discovers the camera is aimed at him, he sheepishly removes his arm from around the woman and begins to understand the enormity of the situation.

A Facebook page claiming to be Deyvi Andrade Urgiles has posted several times defending his actions.

Credit: Deyvi Andrade Urgiles / Facebook

“The majority of the people who have attacked and judged me are women, and some other are men becoming puritans, but no one accepts the reality that it is really the women who insinuate us and we easily fall into their traps because out enemies always want to see the bad,” reads a post on the Facebook page. “Thanks to God I am sorry and I am well. Nothing you all say matters to me. What remains clear is that it is them that ask us to charge them. I was a victim.”

Some people on Twitter broke down the video to show the exact moment he realized he was busted.

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You can see the moment everything started to fall apart for him. Not only did he realize that he was caught on camera with the other woman, but he was caught kissing her.

They even brought Paquita la del Barrio into the discussion.

We all know what it means with Paquita la del Barrio means in a situation like this. She is here to strike fear into the hearts of all of the cheating men in the world. It is quite literally her job to make sure that all men know their place in the world, especially after they start to step out.

Basically, the court of public opinion has already found him guilty.

What do you think about trying to bring a date to a soccer game who is not your significant other?

READ: Here Are The Zodiac Signs Ranked By How Likely Are They To Cheat.

A Woman Is Suing American Airlines After An Employee Took Her Number From Her Luggage And Started To Text Her

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A Woman Is Suing American Airlines After An Employee Took Her Number From Her Luggage And Started To Text Her

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Airports can be strange places. But typically, when you’re in the airport of an unknown city, there’s a sense of freedom and solitude—after all, depending on where you are, the chance that you’ll cross paths with someone you know is pretty slim. But what’s the likelihood of running into someone you don’t know . . . but who somehow knows who you are? For Ashley Barno, this unlikely situation became a reality in June 2019, when an employee of American Airlines took her number from the tag on her luggage, then proceeded to text her incessantly throughout her flight.

The stranger sent a text that read, “Hey, Ashley! How are you??” before immediately following up with a “Btw I must tell you that you are gorgeous!” Barno thanked him for the compliment, asking him who he was and how he got her number. Also, why was he texting her?

He told her to “guess,” then added that he worked for American Airlines, the airline operating her flight from San Diego to Chicago. After telling her that he “just saw her again at the airport” and she was “looking very gorgeous in grey top [sic],” Barno started to feel nervous. She was wearing a gray shirt that day, and she did not like that this stranger was watching her—she said that the messages made her feel “naked in a public place.” She glanced around the gate area but had no idea who or where this person was.

Barno says that the messages continued even after she boarded her flight, when the man revealed that he was also on the plane.

Credit: Joe Samo

“You want to sit next to me?” said another text, promising that he could get her a better seat. “I have two seats open next to me!” he claimed. “Will you join me??”

Twice, he asked her for her seat number and told her that he wanted to “chat the whole flight.” He claimed that Barno herself had given him her number, and when she insisted otherwise, he eventually admitted, “Honestly I got it from ur bagtag.” Barno knew that the tag on her luggage also mentioned her full name and mailing address, which made the situation even more tense.

“Not ok!” she responded. “Not cool.” Then she told him to leave her alone.

What followed was a deluge of 10 more text messages, including one that read, “Friendship with me will be very beneficial for you!!”

He proceeded to promise her “good seats, access to the lounges and free flights too!! You can think about it!” he wrote, later adding, “Just looking for one chance to prove my self [sic]!! I will be very respectful to you always.” (As if sending a barrage of unwanted, creepy messages is respectful behavior.)

After this deeply disturbing experience, Barno hired attorney Joseph Samo and filed a lawsuit against the airline and former employee (who, at the time of the incident, was still employed by American Airlines) over allegations of negligent hiring, sexual harassment and stalking.

Samo said that during the flight, Barno was emotionally distraught, and she notified a flight attendant about what was going on, mentioning that she was receiving unsettling messages from a man in row 15. According to Samo, the flight attendant responded kindly, ensuring that Barno was in a completely different area of the plane and checking in with Barno regularly. When the airplane landed, security guards escorted the man off the plane—the flight attendant told Barno that “this wasn’t the first time he’d done something like this.”

While American Airlines did not answer specific questions about Barno’s allegations or the case, company spokesman Joshua Freed confirmed that the man was employed by American Airlines at the time, though he wasn’t on duty during the alleged harassment. He wrote in a statement that “the employee involved in the complaint is no longer employed at American Airlines,” and that “American Airlines takes the privacy and safety of our customers seriously.” He added, “We investigated the allegations and took appropriate action.”

But Barno’s complaint contests this claim. Although Freed declined to comment on past allegations against the former employee due to the impending litigation, the lawsuit claims that American Airlines “knew of its employee’s propensity to inappropriately contact its customers yet continued to retain him as an employee.”

The complaint, filed last week in a San Diego division of California Superior Court, also states that “American Airlines did not do a sufficient job in hiring and supervising employees to keep its customers safe from sexual harassment and stalking.”

Barno affirmed that she felt frustrated and neglected by the airline when they failed to respond to her concerns about customer privacy after the incident. In an interview with NBC 7 in San Diego, Barno described her fear when she realized they were on the same flight: “Just knowing that he knew what I looked like, and that we were on an enclosed plane and that there’s no way out, like really, really scared me.”

Samo validated Barno’s feas, reiterating the need for action on the part of the airline. “We’re doing this to send a message to big corporations that this behavior is not acceptable,” Samo said. “They have to train their employees better and take better precautions to make sure these things don’t happen again.”