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These Two Women Shared Their Stories About Traveling And Falling In Love Abroad

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Booking a flight to another country and immersing yourself in the local culture can give you some serious 😍 eyes. New sights, new sounds, perhaps even new phrases or a new language can all heighten the senses and stir up the heart strings. From a coming-of-age story of love and self acceptance, to realizing that sometimes falling in love abroad is dreamier than moving together abroad, these two women share stories of falling in love in Latin America and with Latinos traveling abroad.

A family friend sparks an incredible romance that helped her move on to her next chapter.

Eleven years ago I was 21 years old and slowly approaching what I have jokingly referred to as my “quarter life crisis”. Since I had not attended college, I found myself dissatisfied with my fallen-into career. I also had now outgrown my only relationship, which stemmed from high school. Feeling lost, I was anxiously trying to find my way. It was during a family trip to Mexico upon arrival at a party, that I saw my father’s closest friend, Jorge and his son Eduardo. It had been years since I last saw them. When I was younger I enjoyed visiting Mexico and spending time with Eduardo’s family. Admittedly, I had a small crush. However since he was 5 years older, that’s all it was. He was very attractive and athletic, having excelled competitively in the tennis community. Although we were now both in our 20s, as we talked and caught up I realized that some things really hadn’t changed. Eduardo always reminded me of a young Enrique Iglesias, whose mocha colored skin and bright smile presented a stunning contrast. This combo somehow still made me blush. We exchanged information, and maintained contact once I returned home. Eventually a romance ensued, but more importantly a friendship. We were both excited when he received a job offer in Tijuana, as that meant a two-hour drive versus a two-hour flight. This gave me the opportunity to show him around my hometown of Los Angeles, where we created some great memories. Eventually the romance slowly fizzled down mainly due to our different paths. However, we remain close friends. I hadn’t realized how much my self-esteem was being impacted by my circumstances. In a time where I was beginning to experience self-doubt in my abilities, he provided me with excitement and confidence that sparked the fuse which propelled me into my next chapter.”

—Submitted by *Alexzia

A college fling in Cuba fizzled out while moving to Spain.

Doesn’t everybody? 😉 Fell in love with a Cuban during graduate studies in anthropology in Havana. He had a job offer in Spain. I figured I’d finish my thesis and go teach English in Argentina. His sister suggested I do that in Spain instead, seeing how when you date a Cuban, you kinda date the whole family and they were all headed to Spain eventually. The breakup started right after he got to Madrid, but by then I was getting little job leads and a chance to study journalism there – in Spanish. I went anyway. We ended before my arrival, tried to muster a friendship but it was weird – and also hard, both of us rather alone as immigrants in a foreign country. I would learn through other Cuban connections that lots and lots of relationships don’t survive such migrations, even Cubans with Cubans because the change is so radical. I graduated from El País School of Journalism about a year and a half later. He married and had a baby almost immediately. —Submitted by Julienne


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The President of Mexico Is Considering Legalizing Drugs In Order to Bring Peace To The Country

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The President of Mexico Is Considering Legalizing Drugs In Order to Bring Peace To The Country

Mexico’s reputation for being consumed with drugs and violence isn’t going away, not anytime soon. In fact, statistics show that things are only getting worse. The Guardian reports that homicides in Mexico have increased by 16 percent and is approaching the same level as other notable violent countries such as Brazil and Colombia. So it makes sense that Mexico’s incoming administration is considering taking drastic measures in order to bring peace to the country.

Mexico’s President-elect Andrés Manuel López Obrado will reportedly consider the legalization of drugs.

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El País reports that incoming Interior Minister Olga Sanchez Cordero has been given a green light by Mexico’s new president into figuring out how Mexico can address their drug cartels.

On July 17, Sanchez Cordero said that López Obrado told her to do “whatever is necessary to restore peace in this country,” according to El País.

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Olga Sanchez Cordero — who previously served in the Supreme Court — said that the new president understood her ideas regarding the legalization of drugs when he appointed her to be part of his cabinet.

“He knew perfectly well about my lectures and my articles in the press about the decriminalization of drugs,” Cordero said at the conference. “On the subject of decriminalizing drugs, Andres Manuel told me, and I quote: ‘Carte blanche…. Let’s open up the debate.'”

The White House said they would not support the legalization of drugs anywhere.

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During a White House briefing, Press Secretary Sarah Sanders was asked what President Trump thought about the idea of Mexico legalizing drugs.

“I don’t have a specific policy announcement on that front,” Sanders said. She added: “However, I can say that we would not support the legalization of all drugs anywhere and certainly wouldn’t want to do anything that would allow more drugs to come into this country.”


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