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These Parents Dropped Off Their Daughter At Cheer Practice To Go Back-To-School Shopping, Now Their Three Kids Are Orphans After The El Paso Shooting

Alleged white supremacist Patrick Crusius drove hours to get to the border town of El Paso, Texas, where he opened fire at a Walmart and killed 22 people. Two of his victims were newlyweds Jordan and Andre Anchondo. The two had just dropped off their daughter, Skylar Grace, off at cheerleading practice and went to Walmart with their two-month-old son, Paul, to buy school supplies. 

Jordan used her body to shield her son, Paul, who was grazed by a bullet, but survived. As his mother’s body fell on top of him, he broke two fingers. 

Jordan’s sister knows that baby Paul “pretty much lived because she gave her life.”

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CBS News met with Jordan’s sister, Leta Jamrowski, in the waiting room at the University Medical Center of El Paso. She was waiting for her baby nephew, Paul, to receive treatment for his broken fingers. “From the baby’s injuries, they said that more than likely my sister was trying to shield him,” she told CBS. “So when she got shot she was holding him and she fell on him, so that’s why he broke some of his bones. So he pretty much lived because she gave her life.”

The day after Jordan died, her new husband, Andre, was pronounced dead.

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The family had been left in an agonizing wait to find out if Andre would survive–if their three children would be orphaned or not. At 6:33 p.m., Andre’s brother, Tito, wrote on Facebook, “It’s official……he’s gone.”

A survivor of the shooting told Tito that Andre tried to grab the gun away from the shooter.

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Jordan was holding Paul. The witness said that Andre essentially tried to fight off the shooter, but was met with a hail of bullets.

As Andre’s father mourns the loss of his son, he shared this poster his son made when he was a child, which he keeps on his wall to this day.

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The poster, which Andre’s dad has preserved framed, reads, “A different kind of hero…My dad.” Paul will not make those memories of cooking “delicious food” and seeing his father volunteer at his school. Still, Paul will always know that his papa was “a different kind of hero.” It’s in the family blood, shed far too soon.

The two had just celebrated their one year wedding anniversary three days earlier.

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Andre’s Facebook bio reads “Proud husband and Father. July 30 2018 ????????????God is my savior. ???????? born and raised.????️‍♂️♋” He had just started his own business, “Andre House of Granite and Stone,” and the day before asked for his friends and family to give his business page a five star rating on Facebook. They didn’t imagine this future for themselves. They didn’t plan to leave three children behind.

Their oldest child, Skylar Rose, is about to turn six years old.

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You can help their family with funeral expenses and the expenses of three young, traumatized children who have lost all the stability and financial security in their lives by donating to a GoFundMe. Andre’s brother, Tito, shared that he has “been getting so many messages of people wanting to help and i’m writing this post for those that want to help and all the platforms that are available.”

Share the GoFundMe link with your friends and family if you can’t make a contribution yourself. 

 So far, a total of $47,000 has been raised for their three orphaned children.

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The GoFundMe comments alone are heartbreaking: 

“He was a fine man killed by hatred originating from the very top of our country,” reads one comment on GoFundMe.

“My heart is so heavy for all of the victims, and especially for these 3 beautiful children that lost both of their parents in the same day. Rest In Power, Jordan and Andre,” reads another comment.

“Deeply saddened of this tragic event. I’ve known Andre since middle school and he was always the most funniest person, always full of life and love,” reads another comment on GoFundMe. “My dearest condolences to him and his wife, Jordan. May they rest easy as two beautiful angels in the sky watching over their three beautiful children. Prayers for the Anchondo and Jamrowski family.”

You can also donate physical items like diapers, blankets, clothes, and school supplies if you’re local to El Paso.

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They will be accepting donations at 120 N. Piedras Mon-Fri 9 a.m. – 5 p.m. No amount of school supplies will repair the tragedy and loss that this family experienced, simply trying to buy school supplies for their kids, but every bit will help.

READ: As El Paso Grieves Their Loss, Here Is Everything We Know About The Victims Of The El Paso Massacre, Which Were Mostly Latino

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Naya Rivera’s Ex-Husband Responds to “Illogical” Rumors About His Relationship With the Late Actress’s Sister; ‘I can’t believe this is real life’

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Naya Rivera’s Ex-Husband Responds to “Illogical” Rumors About His Relationship With the Late Actress’s Sister; ‘I can’t believe this is real life’

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In a video posted to Instagram on Tuesday, Naya Rivera’s ex-husband Ryan Dorsey offered insight into his life after Rivera’s tragic death in July. He also explained how difficult it has been for him to raise a grieving child in the midst of his own battle with grief.

In the emotional video, Dorsey also responded to the haters who have criticized his decision to move in with Naya Rivera’s sister, Nickayla Rivera, in order to help care for his son, Josy. He condemned the “ill-advised, illogical, misinformed” rumors that painted his relationship with Nickayla as anything but platonic.

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The video came in the wake of several salacious headlines and quotes from “sources” who dubiously claimed that Dorsey and Nickayla Rivera were “fooling around”, “chatting” and “obviously helping lift each other’s spirits.”

In his Instagram video, Dorsey offered further insight into his decision to move in with Nickayla Rivera.

“[Josey] asked me if Titi can live with us…because she’s now the closest thing that he has to a mom,” he said. “Because you’re going to need all the help you get as a single parent, trying to build your career, and navigate this disaster with your child. You deal with it every hour of every day for 80-plus days now.”

 “After all he’s had to go through, how could you deny him that? And because of what? What some strangers might think or say?” he asked.

Dorsey explained how he has had to help his son cope with the death of his mother.

“You tell him [Naya is] an angel now and she’s with God and she’s in heaven, and he says ‘I wanna go there. How do I get there?’ I wouldn’t wish that upon any of your ears to have to hear that. To hear those words come out of the sweetest soul you know.”

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Dorsey also explained how his grief has been magnified by photographers hounding him, trying to spin photos of him with Nickayla into a “false narrative”.

Initially, the negative press subsequently prompted a group of trolls and critics to leave a slew of hateful comments and messages on his social media. In Dorsey’s video, he revealed that he’s receiving “terrible messages” from strangers who are “wishing death” upon him for what they perceive to be inappropriate behavior.

But Dorsey explained to his followers that a romance is the last thing on his mind. “Talking about ‘relationships’?” he asked incredulously. “S—t man, I wish I was worried about a relationship right now, not thinking about this and living with this everyday.”

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Nickayla herself has also taken to her Instagram stories to defend herself from the trolls who are peddling a false narrative about her relationship with Dorsey.

“In the darkest time of my life, the only thing that is important is my friends & family,” she wrote. “I’m not concerned with the way things look because no one can see each agonizing moment we all endure.”

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Police Identify, Arrest Man Accused Of Destroying Beloved Jesus Statue In El Paso Church

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Police Identify, Arrest Man Accused Of Destroying Beloved Jesus Statue In El Paso Church

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An important Jesus statue in an El Paso church has been destroyed and police have arrested the suspect. The statue in St. Patrick’s Cathedral was taken down and decapitated and the person police suspect to be responsible has been arrested.

Earlier this week, a 90-year-old Jesus statue was decapitated by a vandal who destroyed the St. Patrick’s Cathedral.

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We are saddened to announce the vandalism at St. Patrick Cathedral earlier today. The Cathedral was vandalized this morning at around 10:00am. A suspect came into the sanctuary at St. Patrick Cathedral and destroyed the almost 90-year-old statue of the Sacred Heart of Jesus, which was located in the center behind the main altar of the church. The church was open and available for prayer. A suspect has been detained by the El Paso Police department. The police are currently continuing their investigation into the vandalism. The Rector of St. Patrick Cathedral, Fr. Trini Fuentes, said, “I am in shock and we at the Cathedral are heartbroken over such an unexpected situation.” Bishop Seitz also expressed his sadness about the damage caused to the historic Sacred Heart of Jesus Statue. “This statue is one of my favorite representations of Jesus—his arms open wide in welcome, his heart aflame with love for us. I would often take inspiration from this image as I prepared for Mass.” “As sad as I am to see a statue attacked and destroyed, I am grateful that it was not a living person,” Bishop Seitz added. “But a statue, particularly this statue, concretizes and connects us to persons and ideals that are not visible to our eyes. They reveal to us realities that are close to us, but unseen,” he said. “At this point we do not know anything about the person who carried out this assault, but he certainly must be a person who is greatly disturbed to have attacked this peaceful place in our city and this image of the King of Peace. I hope this might be the impetus for him to receive the help he needs. He will be in my prayers,” Bishop Seitz added. “I am devastated at this irreplaceable loss as I know members of this parish community and the whole Church of El Paso will be. In this moment we will reach out in confidence to the One this statue represented and I know he will console us,” Bishop Seitz concluded. St. Patrick, Patron of Ireland and our Diocese, Pray for us.

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The community was rocked when the damage was reported. The statue has been behind the church’s main altar for decades. The vandal attacked the statue at around 10:00 a.m. when the church was opened for prayer when the vandal attacked.

El Paso police have arrested a man in connection to the vandalism.

According to a press release from the police department, 30-year-old Isaiah Cantrell has been arrested for the vandalism. The damage to the statue is estimated to be about $25,000 and Cantrell’s bail has been set at $20,500. El Pasoans are angered at the man for destroying the irreplaceable statue.

“This statue is one of my favorite representations of Jesus—his arms open wide in welcome, his heart aflame with love for us,” Bishop Seitz said about the destruction of the historic Sacred Heart of Jesus statue. “I would often take inspiration from this image as I prepared for Mass.”

Statues like the Sacred Heart of Jesus statue are important to communities that are used to seeing them. The destruction has left clergymen and parishioners angered and saddened by the loss of the statue. It is a historic part of the El Paso religious community having overseen masses since before World War II.

The Diocese of El Paso is raising money to help St. Patrick’s Cathedral.

The funds raised by the Diocese of El Paso and the Foundation for the Diocese of El Paso will be used on the St. Patrick’s Cathedral. The money raised will be used to fix the shattered statue as well as add security and do renovations to the famed church.

“I am devastated at this irreplaceable loss as I know members of this parish community and the whole Church of El Paso will be,” Bishop Seitz said. “In this moment we will reach out in confidence to the One this statue represented and I know he will console us.”

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