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What It’s Really Like Growing Up With a Single Mom

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Growing up with a single mom, la jefa de jefas, is a pretty unique experience. On the one hand, you learn to appreciate and value her strength and determination. On the other hand, you’ve gotta seek out your own father figures in life. A blend of struggles and perks, this is what growing up with a woman head of the household was like for me:

1. We had to make do with one income.

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One parent. Two kids. Do the math.

2. I only needed mom’s permission.

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Watching my friends bounce between mom and dad like a ping-pong ball while trying to get permiso to go to a party made me glad I only had mom. No “go ask your dad” happening here.

3. You don’t stress over wondering whether women can do it all.

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Because you know they can adapt to any situation. For instance, my Mami finished school, held down a job and raised two kinds all on her own. She stopped at nothing to give herself and us the best life she could.

4. We didn’t spend much time together.

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There was often no one else to supervise when she was busy, which means you gotta learn how to be self-sufficient.

5. And, thus, independence was the norm and a necessity.

I had to learn to do many things on my own, without depending on others.

6. Which means my homemaking skills are A+.

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Doing my own laundry, cooking dinner and sewing buttons were among the things I knew how to do since I was pequeña.

7. I learned to count my blessings.

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Because we had to work hard for everything, including time with each other, we learned to really value it.

8. My friends, and their families, became my extended familia.

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I learned often times love IS thicker than blood.

9. I developed an incredible sense of loyalty.

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We were a small familia and looked out for each other fearlessly. (Even though there were times when we couldn’t stand one another!)

Thanks, mom!


Did you grow up with a single mom or dad? Are you currently one yourself? Let us know your story in the comments, if you wanna.

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The Judges Of "The Voice" Lost It When This Latina Belted Out "Como La Flor"

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The Judges Of “The Voice” Lost It When This Latina Belted Out “Como La Flor”

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Selena made an appearance on “The Voice” and the judges loved it.

“The Voice” contestant Elia Esparza took “a risk” and did her blind audition in Spanish. But she didn’t pick just any Spanish-language song. The El Paso, Texas native came out with that “Como La Flor” fire and the crowd and judges lost it. Adam Levine, Alicia Keys, Miley Cyrus and Blake Shelton were dancing from the jump. Cyrus even called the performance “bad ass” before pushing her button to spin around and see Esparza giving Selena’s classic new life on the stage. Levine praised the Tejano with bringing something to the stage that was “refreshing.” In the end, all three judges pleaded their cases to be her coach. Only Cyrus was able to pronounce her name correctly without having to ask her over and over. No spoilers here. You’ll have to check the video to find out who Esparza chose to be her coach for the season.

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