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How Latino Parents Treat You When You Visit Them

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Even if you’re a grown-ass adult with your own place and your own mile-high stack of bills to pay, there are times where you find yourself back home. (Because home is not only where the heart is, it’s where all the free food is, too.)

Here are some things that happen every time you go back:

1. You revert to baby mode.

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Something about being back in your childhood bedroom tends to make a person revert to their preteen nonsense. It doesn’t help if your parents treat you like a little kid every time you visit.

2. …And that includes petty fighting with your siblings again.

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In your defense, your sibling IS a cacaface.

3. You find yourself having to self-censor a LOT.

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You’re so used to just dropping a well-placed F-bomb whenever you want that it’s hard to scale back when in front of Mami and Papi and Abuelita. But not Tía Tati, because malhablada as f*%$.

4. You’ll need to explain technology to your parents. Again.

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“No, Pa, you have to turn it on first.” “Mami, no, Siri no conoce a Walter Mercado, ya basta.”

5. You will receive many wonderful “gifts.”

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Not only will your family members try to buy you things for your place (be grateful, boo, they love you), but your Abuela will inevitably try to give you clothes that haven’t been in style since 1921.

6. You’re constantly compared to “niños buenos.”

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Yeah, yeah, we get it, Margarita’s kids are already married and have kids and pay her rent and have a condo on the moon. Whatever.

7. You shall be forced to clean.

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Get ready for those early weekend morning Juan Luis Guerra-and-sweep sessions.

8. On the plus side, you get to eat all you favorite foods.

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Nom nom nom.

9. …Which means you will be gaining weight.

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Feed. Those. Curves.

10. Which means you gotta hear about gaining weight.

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If your mom has a problem with it, then maaaaaaybe she shouldn’t have set giant plates of vaca frita and maduros and congri and flan in front of you.

11. Family get-togethers never just include immediate family.

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Not even sure if all these folks are cousins or “cousins.”

12. …And they will end up lasting way into the night.

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IT’S 4:17 A.M.!!!!!!!!!!!!

Of course, most important of all…

13. You will be sad to leave.

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Family is pretty great, after all.


READ: 16 GIFs That Totally Capture A Latino Family Dinner

What are other things that you go through when you visit home, and also can you invite us over for dinner?

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After 22 Years, This Mexican Immigrant Dad Finally Saw His Parents

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After 22 Years, This Mexican Immigrant Dad Finally Saw His Parents

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Recently, a video on Twitter, which shows two older men being reunited with their parents after 22 years, went viral. mitú reached out to @Edgar_92Till (Edgar Llamas) and asked him about the video and the events that led up to this super emotional reunion.

This is the Twitter video of a long overdue reunion that is melting hearts all over the Twitter-verse.

“My dad left for the American dream, to give me and my mom a better life and left his parents in Guanajuato, Mexico,” Edgar Llamas told mitú. His father is the man in the green shirt. “He moved out here to Oregon and hadn’t seen them since.”

The whole thing was a surprise for his father, who hadn’t seen his parents since he left Mexico 22 years ago.

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“My grandparents applied for a visa and got approved,” Llamas told mitú. “So my mom went ahead and bought them their ticket. It was all a surprise.”

And, from the looks of it, the surprise totally worked.

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“I was going to get married the next day so we told my dad we were gonna have a dinner before the wedding, not knowing my grandparents would be attending,” Llamas told mitú about the surprise. “It was important cause he [Llamas’ dad] was waiting to fix his residency to able to visit them in Mexico, but they did him the favor. He would only call home but never got the chance to go back to his native land.”

Llamas told mitú that his father has submitted his application to sort out his residency but the process is taking a really long time.

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The process of getting his residency has taken so long that the surprise reunion was all the more special.

“It was an emotional moment for everyone there,” Llamas told mitú. “My dad deserves it.”

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Well done, Edgar. *wipes away tears of joy*

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