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18 Things That Happen When You Have a Huge Family

If even your “small” brindis parties have upwards of 30 people, you probably have a huge family. Below are a few things people who’ve lost track of how many primos they have know to be true:

1. Introducing bae to the family is a huge commitment.

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Not just because there are more people judging, but because you need at least two* hours to go through all the intros and explain everyone’s relationship to one another.

*Estimate does not include time needed to study 785,329 notecards with each family member’s name.

2. And you’re still not 100% sure how some people in your extended family are related.

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The ongoing dilemma: As a kid, no one told you how your Tia Titi can be your aunt if she’s an only child. And now as an adult, it’s too late to ask. (Better call everyone tio or tia, just in case.)

3. You secretly love the shock value of telling someone how many cousins you have.

And yes, you’re close with all of them.

4. You have more babysitting experience than most of your friends.

5. You always know what kids/teens are into these days.

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Because you have at least three cousins per age group at all times.

6. You know that calling an elder is a more efficient way to spread news than social media.

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Facebook’s algorithm ain’t got nothing on abuelita’s 76-member-deep phone chain.

7. Small weddings are nonexistent.

8. You can’t go anywhere without running into family.

At this point, you don’t even have to tell your friends why you just stopped to hug someone in the middle of the street. “Let me guess… another cousin?”

9. That is, of course, assuming you weren’t already out with your cousins.

Oh, a stranger wants to sing a song? Watch my family start a riot behind him.

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10. Group pictures with all the cousins are for special occasions only.

#bigfamilyproblems #disneyday and we were missing 3 more #lolololol

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11. Your list for quince courts and wedding parties might be in the double digits.

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12. You regularly see your second, third and fourth cousins.

Ayyee nye 2015 #familia #primolove #nye #fromstltochi

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13. You share birthday parties.

14. Even religious celebrations are never boring!

Piñata fun at #londyns1stbirthday #endofsummerfun #kidsgoingcrazy #kidsofinstagram

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15. In fact, just about every occasion turns into a party.

Long and loud social nights out don’t faze you. Growing up, they were just called funerals.

16. Your family never leaves you alone.

They are exhausted from their dancing lol #goodnight #crowdedbed #lovethem

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17. Especially when you need them the most.

Family hug #familyhug @notthatgabrieliglesias @carlosiglesias78 @angeldoesntknow @iglesiasjosh #family #hug

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18. You know that your big, giant family is basically the greatest blessing in your life.

Merry Christmas errybody #primolove

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And the reason why you yourself want to have as many children as possible. (Just keep in mind that abuela’s baby shower invite list isn’t getting any shorter.)

READ: The Most Awkward Things About Being The Only Girl In Your Family

What’s something you go through with your over-sized familia? Mitú wants to know. Leave a comment below!

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A Doorbell Camera Captured The Terrifying Moment A Neighbor Saved A Family From Their burning home

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A Doorbell Camera Captured The Terrifying Moment A Neighbor Saved A Family From Their burning home

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A family from Arizona has tragically been without a home since New Year’s Day. Fortunately, however, thanks to the swift efforts of a neighbor, they still have each other.

On New Year’s Day, the Salgado family was asleep in their home in Avondale, Arizona when they heard a frantic knock at their door. Nicole Salgado’s husband, who lived in the home with their children, opened the front door to find her neighbor shouting at her to get her family out of the house. It was on fire.

The Salgado family woke up New Year’s Day to find their house in flames.

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“We were all asleep,” Salgado explained to CNN in an interview. “Then all of the sudden around 7:30 in the morning, we hear banging on our door and our doorbell is going off and we kind of get scared.”

Their neighbor, Carolyn Palisch, was there telling them to get out of the house. Footage from the family’s home security video shows their neighbor running past flames to get to the home.

“He opened the door and all I heard was our neighbor Carolyn saying your house is on fire you have to get out,” said Salgado.

Salgado, who is a mother to four children, hurried to gather her children. Together, all of them escaped the burning home safely. “It was just kind of frantic at first, making sure we got everyone out and the dogs out,” she explained. “Then once we realized the full extent of it we were just in shock as we watched our home burn.”

Sadly, the Salgado family lost all their belongings in the fire

Salgado explained that the roof of her house collapsed moments after they escaped. According to CNN, firefighters at the scene claimed that if the family had still been sleeping at the time the roof had collapsed they would have inhaled the smoke and likely passed out immediately.

We are so thankful to just be alive,” Salgado explained in a post to her TikTook page. She also included doorbell camera footage of the moment their neighbor came to the rescue.

Salgado’s video has been liked nearly 7 million times on TikTok.

“Never did we think it was going to blow up the way it did. But we are so grateful,” Salgado explained. “We are so glad it did for Carol, to show how amazing she is. If it wasn’t for her it’d be a totally different story. We feel so thankful to her. We’re always going to consider her family. She not only saved us, she saved our kids.”

Salgado says that the cause of the fire is still under investigation and shared that her family has created a Go Fund Me account to help them rebuild their lives.

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Man Records His Mother’s Vile Anti-Gay Religious Rant After He Tells Her He Is Engaged

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Man Records His Mother’s Vile Anti-Gay Religious Rant After He Tells Her He Is Engaged

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Henry Jimenez wanted to share the news with his mother that he was finally engaged to his boyfriend. Instead of her being kind to him she launched into a vile and hateful anti-gay rant she disguised as a religious matter. The video of the encounter will break your heart and the son breaks down in tears over her angry words.

Henry Jimenez broke hearts when he posted a video of his mother’s anti-gay, religious rant.

Jimenez shared the news with his mother that he was engaged. The influencer, as so many Latinos, wanted to share in the moment with his mother. He knew what would happen but still wanted to give his mother a chance to know. What followed was a hateful rant that would leave any child in tears.

At one point in the video, the mother says that her son being gay and engaged is going to kill her faster. You can see Jimenez’s heart break when his mother continued her verbal assault about how he is a sinner.

People are stunned that the mother could speak that way to her child.

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“How sad that she is so blind,” wrote _fanyluu. “And how ugly that she is such a blackmailer telling you that you are going to kill her…very bad on her part.”

Seeing moments like this are heartbreaking but create a stronger community of support.

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Being gay is one of the scariest things. The moment someone realizes that they are gay they immediately become different and have a secret from everyone else. It can be alienating and terrifying to navigate alone. Fortunately, social media created a safe space for LGBTQ+ people to connect and continues to be a valuable resource for LGBTQ+ people.

Despite the video, Jimenez’s love for his fiance is real and enduring.

Congratulations on your engagement, Henry! Love is love is love. We love to see two people happy and in love. May your marriage be filled with all of the happiness and love you two clearly deserve.

READ: A Gay Single Father Of 3 Is Using TikTok To Share His Family’s Love With The World

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