Primas Are Sharing What Makes Their Bonds Just As Special As A Sisterhood
Family is very important to the Latinidad. It isn’t just our immediate blood connections that hold powerful meaning to us, it’s also our family that has become close to us through shared experiences. Besides friends and found family, our primas can definitely be put into this group. Whether they’re related by blood or just by proximity, our primas mean so much to us. Our co-conspiritors, our best friends and the women who will always have our backs, the bond we have with our primas makes us stronger. It’s worth celebrating that.
We asked our FIERCE readers to tell us what their primas mean to them and what we got was a comments section full of a whole lot of love and heart emojis. Combined with some of our favorite internet posts, these comments remind us just how precious that bond with our primas our. This is sure to make you want to send a text to the family group chat to tell your primas how much you love them.
1. Primas equal sisterhood
“In Mexico we call primas Primas-Hermanas (sister-cousin) to the ones who’s parents are siblings with our parents . In a sense an extension of sisterhood. We grew up closer than most.” — @killacarm
2. That one person who will always have your back.
“My primas were my sisters growing up and still are. We may not see each other every day or see eye to eye on everything but we have each others’ backs. ❤️” — @its__peaches
3. The one you can always vent to.
“Our at home therapy session. I miss those.” — @lizvaldillez
4. Primas eventually become tias.
“I’m an only child…not by choice. My parents were hit by a drunk driver while my mom was pregnant with my brother. My parents were saved but had complications. Like you, I am so blessed to have many cousins and Tias who added me to the pack of kids. Now as a mom myself ( 2 children) we still reach out to one another. My primas have kids in college and they are at out place all the time.Im officially mom when mom is miles away. I know they would they too would be there for my kids! The love and support continue. ❤️❤️” — @ryonmichelle
5. Your prosperity is their prosperity.
“My prima always helped me get jobs when I needed money to get stuff for my daughter. ❤️❤️❤️ ” — @nerdalous.13
6. They’re there for the good times and the bad.
“Some of my cousins have been my best friends for sure! They were ride or die!” — @pryz
7. Your personal secret keeper.
“Over the years it was like having that one sis you can confide in.” — @la.dayysii
8. The ultimate Squad Goals.
Before Squad goals was a thing, our first clique was our primas. They’re always be live-long members of the crew.
9. Our permanent dance partner.
It’s not a party without our primas. Whether it’s a quince or just a family BBQ, the party doesn’t start until we are reunited with these girls.
10. The only one who can joke with us like this.
Coming from anyone else, these would be fighting words but our primas know us that way so it’s all good.
Ultimately, our primas are everything to us.
“My prima is my fuckin’ everything. Mi hermana, my best friend, my advisor, my shoulder to cry on…TODO.” — @oriettareadmai