You Don’t Even Know You Do This And It’s Turning Most Women Off
A recent article picked up a story that focused on how men are unknowingly having a negative impact on the overall sexual experience of their female partners by obsessing on their own ego — as it relates to making them orgasm.
Men were asked to rate how manly they feel when their sexual partners orgasm…
In a new study that examined the sexual habits of 810 heterosexual men, the participants were asked to “read a vignette where they imagined that an attractive woman either did or did not orgasm during a sexual encounter with them.” They were then told to rate their self-esteem, in terms of how masculine they felt, as a result of experiencing either situation. Their responses showed that they felt more masculine and reported a higher self-worth when they imagined that the women climaxed.
Turns out, a lot of men actually define their own masculinity based on how good they are in bed…
The report, titled Do Women’s Orgasms Function as a Masculinity Achievement? suggests that “women’s orgasms do function, at least in part, as a masculinity achievement for men.” So, for most men, their entire self-image comes from their ability to perform sexually.
Unfortunately, most women find it a huge turn off when dudes are cocky about their sexual prowess…
The Sun reports that “For many women, there are few things worse than a boastful sexual partner.” It seems “men can ruin the moment by making a woman’s orgasm all about them.” So, for men who derive ego boosts after a job well done, keep it to yourselves — or risk never feeling it again.
So, if you’re only trying to please her to boost your own ego, you’re doing sex all wrong.
Because, if you have sex and she’s not completely satisfied, she’s gonna write a strongly worded Yelp! review about your selfish penis.